Oh how times change
Oh, how times changed. My wife is not a morning person. Her normal idea of early morning is about an hour after the sun comes up. On weekends, when there were no real obligations driving our schedule I would wake up by my definition of late, usually around 7, then have a few hours to myself which I would use to get very important things done, like play video games. My wife would wake up around 9ish, wander into a cup of coffee, then breakfast, then a shower. When it was all said and done, on the really lazy days, the house would finally be up and ready for the day around 11 am.
Then baby.
Having a child changed all that. My schedule stays the same. Even after the infant feeding schedule turned into the toddler approximation of a reasonable routine waking up around 9 was no longer in the cards. I still wake up at my normal time of somewhere around 6, but I no longer get to sleep in until 7 and more often than not I am up in the 5:30 range. This is because this is when Max wakes up.
Today is a perfect example of the change in our routine. I find the family, at 8 am, playing outside in the last bit of reasonable temperatures before the sun finishes obliterating the prospect of having a good time with out the judicious application of water (either in sprinkler or pool form). At 8 am, the entire family has been up, had the chance to dress, had a big breakfast of pumpkin spice wafffles (it is technically Autumn now), and I have even mowed the lawn.
Its hard to explain, without getting long winded, how surreal this seems. In a reasonably short amount of time, we have gone from "don't even try to do anything before 10" to "Its a slow morning because it is after 8 and I have only done one useful thing".
Its hard to explain, without getting long winded, how surreal this seems. In a reasonably short amount of time, we have gone from "don't even try to do anything before 10" to "Its a slow morning because it is after 8 and I have only done one useful thing".
My lovely wife has come such a long way.
I have a feeling this will all change with the arrival of baby #2. I think we will be back to "don't even try to get anything done before 10". Not because we are all sleeping in, but because it will take us 3-4 hours to wrangle 2 kids through the morning routine.
